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Taken from Playboy.com, interview with Carnie Wilson

By Antonia Simigis

Four years ago, pop singer Carnie Wilson never dreamed she'd have a physique svelte enough for Playboy magazine. At 31, she weighed more than 300 pounds. "I didn't even bother with pretty lingerie," she tells Playboy.com. Today, after successful gastric bypass surgery combined with a strict diet and exercise regimen, Carnie is 150 pounds lighter -- and ready to show off her hot new bod. "I felt like a million bucks," she says about posing nude for the August issue of Playboy. "I think it's a fantasy for many women, and it came true for me. It's an honor." 

When it comes to Carnie's love life, though, size never mattered -- in fact, she and husband Rob Bonfiglio met before she trimmed down. "I was always very sexual," she explains. "I've never had a problem with men." She may be sticking to salads these days, but Carnie's appetite for sex is still very healthy.


1. Did you get a lot of action before you lost weight?

Carnie Wilson: I have always had a very healthy sex life, and I don't think it's changed at all. I know that sounds silly, but it's just the way I feel and look that has changed. Guys have never been an issue. The issue is with people who have stupid misconceptions about fat people's sexuality. Like they're gross or they're not clean, or something like that.  I think whoever knows me knows that I take great care of my body, my skin, my hygiene. I mean, I've always been obsessed with how I smell. I'm just a very anal retentive person like that. So when I was a big girl, I never had issues with that. And I always loved sex. I wasn't proud of my body, and so I think I was way more reserved, and I didn't feel quite as desirable.  But I did have a great sex life, there's no question about it.

2. Is sex different now?

CW: Sex really just depends on who you're having sex with, obviously. With my husband, I've known him more since I lost weight, so it's kind of hard to compare. But yeah, sex is different. It's better. It's more exciting. It's more sensual and erotic. And I don't get as tired. 

3. Has it improved your libido?

CW: At first it did. During the first four months, after I started losing weight, after I had my surgery, I was never hornier in my fuckin' life. It was so funny. I just could not get enough sex. It was insane. God, it's just that rush of endorphins from exercising and just feeling really confident because I was conquering something that I always failed at. I can't explain it. I just felt like wearing lingerie and stripping and just having as many orgasms as possible. My husband loved it, of course. I'm the type that would have a quickie every day.

4. Do you try more positions now?

CW: Oh yeah, definitely. Getting on top, that's a big deal. (Before I lost weight) if I bent my legs for more than five seconds they were killing me and I'd get a cramp. And I would crush the motherfucker that was below me. I mean, think about it! I didn't even dare! No way.

5. Were you limited to missionary?

CW: It was usually doggy-style. That's all I could really do. And my knees would hurt. But I was always very flexible, so I never had a problem with sex. The problem was me being tired too soon.

6. Do you ever check yourself out naked in the mirror now?

CW: Yes! God yeah. Every day. It's exciting and great and awesome. First of all, the fact that now I can see my vagina is a big deal. I can look down and see it! [Laughs] It's great. 

7. You bought $1500 worth of lingerie before your Playboy photo shoot. Did it make you feel sexy?

CW: I think that's the ultimate way to feel sexy. I definitely feel really good when I put on a piece of lingerie. And the best part was trying all the pieces on for my husband. Oh my god! Boy, did we fuck that night, let me tell you.[would he have fucked you if you put on lingerie as a bbw? Damn!]

8. What's your favorite part of your body?

CW: I'm very proud of my breasts. My surgeon is a genius because they were horrific.  They're beautiful, they're perfect, they're just what I would ever dream of. I sometimes even talk about them like they're not even mine... it's very odd. But they're gorgeous and it was worth it.  I think the change is just so dramatic that it's hard for me to even believe. I'm proud of my butt. It's always been a good, round butt.  And my calves! I have good legs! I have good-shaped muscular calves and normal ankles. But there are always things we wish for. I wish I had a smaller waist.  I have very narrow hips and not a small waist, and a boyish, straight figure.

9. How'd you lose your virginity?

CW: Well, I'm not proud of the fact that I lost my virginity at 13 years old. It was two weeks before I turned 14, and it was with a boyfriend that I had had for a few years, and we were together many years after that. It was definitely something where we thought we were in love, and I felt ready. I told my mom, and she was cool about it. She trusted me. And I used protection, and he remained my boyfriend for nine years. I feel bad about talking about it, because I don't want anyone that young to have sex. But I can't erase my past.

10. What gets you hot?

CW: Oral sex is the best. Giving, receiving, there's just nothing better. I love both, because I love pleasing my husband, and I know he loves to please me. Seriously, what is better than a tongue?

11. Have you ever had a threesome?

CW: No. Well actually, wait. I have. I think I was a junior in high school. We were just drunk and lying in bed, and I just took one guy's hand and put it on one tit, the other guy's hand on the other, and I went back and forth kissing them both. It was beyond fun.

12. If you could have an unlimited supply of calorie-free chocolate for a year, on the condition that you had to give up sex, would you take it?

CW: I don't think I would give up sex for anything, and that's the truth. Sex is the most natural, beautiful thing I can think of. And chocolate's number two.

why carnie, why!?!?!

T.G. says:
She was pretty hot "as is". I really do wish that she would have given up the full frontal while she still had that sexy round belly!  I wish she would have taken some pics before having the surgery!!!  Me and a lot of other bbw admirers would have jumped at the chance to check out pics of this supersized singer before the weight loss!!!  I have to say that I've had heavier women on top of me and it made me that much more excited!  It just figures that she had to drop all that weight to show off her body... Some day women who want to show off at any size will do so with the realization that all fat admirers are not freaks!  There are some good guys out there that like fat chicks!